Sometimes people get their heads screwed on wrong and bad things happen to good people. One can bring it upon himself by doing "stupid things." It might be that old "can't see the forest for all the trees" concept. But bad things have happened to good people - and some (not all) are self - inflicted.
To muddy these waters a bit: I have had good things happen to me when I was good. I've had bad things happen when I was bad. Conversely, good things have happened to me when I was bad, and bad things happened when I was rfeally good. There does not seem to be a rule concerning this particular issue. I have looked: it is not in the Constitution.
The Corsicana band director last Monday (week ago) was accused of sending sexually explicit text messages to one of his students. By Tuesday he had resigned. It took until Friday for the Dallas stations to pick up on it. The press does love this type of story.
I do not know what happened. I have never met the guy (Rick Wygant). He doesn't know me. I do not know anything about the student (at this point, I assume it is a female student - even though I never heard that). And more importantly, I don't want to know anything. Leave me out of this problem. They tell me that Rick is a terrific trumpet player. We trumpeters do have an arrogance problem at times. I have seen his Corsicana band. They are not in the top competitively; but are far from being terrible.
My issue is that somewhere down the line someone turned off the brain function that eliminates problems like this. We all know that teenagers lack a mature brain. They look at the world through different lenses than we - [ I might add (politically) like these squirts who are doing all of this "occupy" protests. They have not the slightest idea that protest should be aimed at the goverenment - not the businesses that make America great. ] He should have known better. Students do not always see the consequences of certain actions.
Rick made a mistake of putting something in writing - a text message on the phone to a girl - she won't deleted it - and, when troubled, she will share with her best friend or troup of friends. Now, teenage girls do this type of thing all the time. They write notes to each other with some of the wildest stuff. Then, she is are destroyed when the note shows up in a public place. I own several of these notes in a box in the garage. Never write something that should be said - in person - it will come back to bite you.
Side bar: Three of my favorites: 1.) my mom gave me a note written by a 3rd grade girl. The girl stated that when she got home, she took off all her clothes, climbed up on the dresser, looked in the mirror and said, "you're tuff." 2.) a 6 page note written in hot pink ink - single spaced - both sides of paper - in which a girl is suggesting certain sexual activities to her boyfriend in order to keep him happy. He answered back in blue on the same paper. It was quite detailed. What's funny is his cool response: "I guess we could do that if you want..." 3.) a girl writes a note attacking several other girls - last sentence "don't lose this note." It was not lost. It was left in plain sight on a music stand. But, I regress.
Now Wygant faces 10 years or so in prison - if nothing else, certainly he faces a career change - if he is not making license plates, he won't be back in teaching for quite a while. Went to school with a guy (Dalvin Boone) who was a fantastic trumpet player and person. He was on the right track being chosen as band director for Amarillo H.S. This was in the early 60s. He went out with the guys to celebrate - leaving the bar, he wet the pavement - beer - what goes in, must come out. Arrested for public displan, he lost that job before it began. He was such a good guy.
What did he do? Dalvin pulled up stakes and moved to work on his Master or PhD at some major midwest University like Michigan or Ohio State - some big school. I know nothing after that. Good guy in college. Bad situation afterwards. It is a shame.
A thought: Universities need to have a class in ethics - or whatever it is to be called. All of these type of situations should be discussed with young, weak minds as they prepare to enter teaching. They should learn the pitfalls as they learn how to give CPR or to teach the minor scale.
Perhaps, just maybe, a school system should have this as a fall training topic when they have those unrelenting boring sessions prior to school. Those meetings are such a drain of one's brain. I don't suppose they will ever quit. Everyone has a new plan to improve teaching / discipline / etc. - a hot new plan is offered each year - doesn't matter. The good teachers teach; the bad ones "occupy" space.
The rambling is over. I feel sorry for the student - I feel sorry for Rick - I feel sorry for the Corsicana Band program - I feel sorry for the family of the above - I feel sorry for the other band directors in the local system - I feel for the administrators who must be scrambling to correct a bad situation.
Here is an issue that probably won't get much notice. One of the remaining 3 directors has been chosen as interim director. I believe she plans to apply for the head job eventually. If she is not selected, I am sure she will be in a compromised position with the new director. She should find a way to apply but not be embarrassed if ignored for the job. It is a tough world out there.
I am retired .... might I add: sitting on my backporch watching the lake dry up.
Later guys, call me if you need me to solve your problems.
A "STONE" is a family word for a personal story or thought, not quite an essay or short story. We moved to central Texas to be near a daughter. We are down to only one wirehair dachshund - Sadie. (Goodbye in 2021 to Oscar the ball boy and Bruno the larger twin) & my wife -- penned by a retired Texas H.S. band director - just nonsense thoughts unrelated to each other or anything other than what's happening and comments.
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
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Feel sorry for the predator? Is that how you feel Rick Wygant in not some newbie to the world he is in his late forties, the girl a minor. He sent her sexually explicit texts, there is no excuse. He deserves at least 10 years then hopefully he would no longer attempt to be sexual with a minor. Now what he and his wife did was leave the state and make up a lie in which they told everyone in Camp Verde, Arizona. Since these people don't know about why he has moved to that area I feel sorry for any future unsuspecting victims.ReplyDelete
I knew Ricky Wygant in High School, where he was an outstanding trumpet player (AllState, McDonald's Marching Band) and the envy of all area band directors. He was also one of the most arrogant people I'd ever met. I was surprised when I came across this story, mugshot and all, but frankly thought it par for the course of how I imagined he'd end up. He always thought he was better than everyone else. And now he's learning that Karma's a bitch.ReplyDelete
As an alumni of the CHS band I can guarantee you that the band grew from this and they are doing spectacular. The band director that you had mentioned did apply for the head position and the band has grown and progressed ever since. I couldn't have been more proud of her and the band for stepping up regardless of the circumstances. But that is something that the band has always dealt with unfortunately... There's been a saying that band directors don't stay long and CHS has definitely suffered from this. Since being in the band program from 6th grade to a Senior I've had 11 different band directors. We were deprived of doing amazing things because of this situation but Bre (now currently director) had been there for 3 years and stepped up to the plate. She definitely did not disappoint. Her kids love it now and CHS as a whole respect the band again. For several years there hardly was any funding for the band. Fowl uniforms falling apart and never fit right. Beat up instruments that were constantly in repairs. Not even doors and locks to lock up the instruments! And theft was a huge issue... I've seen the door to the instrument room picked so many times. CISD never gave us any slack(mainly because this is Texas and football is more important). But Bre put a stop to this. Her personality is very tough and she fought for this band. Now the band has amazing uniforms(which I'm super jealous of), no theft, and new instruments. I guess it was a good thing that this had happen to us. We have learned quickly that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and it definitely shows. If you happen to be in Corsicana on a Friday football game please come show your support!ReplyDelete